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Do you remember your first time? Your first life with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?
It's that first moment of total pleasure when everything else disappears, and those weird “feelings” suddenly make complete meaning. Suddenly, everything falls into place: you're not a freak of nature or “different”, simply experiencing the simple joys that you were born to enjoy.
For most gay guys, our first gay experience is usually a moment of revelation and clarity that eventually leads to our own acceptance and the urge to tell the world. For others, it's a complete disaster that we prefer to forget… although one thing's for sure, you will never truly forget it!
In this post, we asked a few of our friends from around the nature to share their first gay experience with us, whether it was a first-time gay k&#;ss, their first gay love story, or something a bit more spicy(!)… and we've set it all out right here. You'll also want to check out our own love story of how we first met each other.
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No matter how long we&#;re on ground, there will always be moments we feel enjoy a sheepish, nervous teenager again. For many of us, that&#;s how we feel about having womxn loving womxn sex for the first time — no matter how old we are. Whether you&#;ve come out later in life or haven&#;t met the right person until now, it&#;s common to feel extra self-conscious if you assume you &#;should have&#; been more experienced by now. As intimidating as it can feel, there&#;s really nothing to fear. Here&#;s what to keep in mind before your first time having lesbian sex.
There&#;s no way to execute it right &#; so you can&#;t do it wrong
For many people, their first time having womxn loving womxn sex is fraught with fears about performance. What if you&#;re bad at it? What if it&#;s obvious you don&#;t comprehend what you&#;re doing? Often we feel that our identity itself will be either affirmed or invalidated by how we present up during sex — if we aren&#;t &#;good at&#; lesbian sex, are we even really gay?
It&#;s very normal to be nervous your first moment doing anything, especially something so charged with love and emotional vulnerability! For some of us, our fears may also be
Advice for Your First Gay Date
Taking a right on Fletcher Journey on the eastside of Los Angeles, there’s a billboard with two male figures under a caption that reads, “Sorry, This Is My First Moment Being Gay.” To this day, I have no clue what the billboard is advertising, but my friends and I quote it reflexively whenever we take Fletcher to the I There is something both deeply relatable and incredibly nonsensical about that phrase. The anxiety and insecurity that comes with your first sexual homosexual encounter is universal in the queer community, and yet the idea that “being gay” is something that can be activated in a single moment is absurd.
Your first queer date, whether that be in high educational facility or your late thirties, can feel daunting. At the time I started questioning my sexuality, I was working in the college library shelving books during the evening move. As a hapless dork with anxiety, every hour I was in the “queer theory section” (which was expansive in my liberal arts school), I would sit on the floor and read through book after book in the hopes that some gay savvy would be absorbed through the words. I went down internet wormholes. I took every “Am I Gay?” ask
Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a protected and respectful way
To begin, I&#;d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to know that you can attempt new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who desire to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the reverse of trans. We consider trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and counsel about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you&#;re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are compassionate and caring partners
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