Picture this: you find yourself in the presence of a dashing young man, a mysterious smile playing upon his lips, and you can’t help but wonder, “Does he like me?”
There are a number of subtle cues that men donate off when they’re attracted to someone, and once you know what to look for, you’ll be able to tell if he’s interested in you without having to guess.
According to renowned body language experts, there are subtle yet powerful body language cues that can show a person’s interest. Drawing from years of explore and observation, they point out the importance of combining multiple cues to decode someone’s body language accurately.
In this blog post, we’ll discuss some of the most common male body language signs of attraction. We’ll cover everything from eye contact and facial expressions to posture and gestures.
By the end of this post, you’ll be able to tell if that guy you’re interested in is just creature friendly or if he’s really into you. So what are you waiting for?
Start reading and study how to decode male body language!
What is body lan
As the author of the first body language publication for gay men, I'm often asked how male body language affects guy-on-guy dating. The answer: plenty. But to understand why certain postures, gestures and expressions make you more appealing to gay guys, you have to perceive the 5 major principles of gay body language:
#1. Words lie, bodies don't.
The truth leaks out of our bodies like a pockmarked water pail. As soon as we set a finger in one hole another one opens up. You may contemplate you look calm, hip and collected, but see down -- your foot's tapping the floor enjoy a woodpecker. Sexual signals bounce all over the place whenever gay men get together, and they're being sent with heads, eyes, arms, hands, legs, and feet. Yes, feet. Long story, keep reading.
#2. Your body language changes when you view somebody hot. And you're usually not aware of it.
Hidden camera studies reveal that a man's posture changes when he sees somebody that turns him on. He, or more to the point, YOU, will:
Pull your stomach. (To look sleeker)
Throw your shoulders back (to occupy more space)
Puff up your chest (to look bigger)
Lift your head (To look taller)
Protrude your jaw (to look mor
The Science of Gaydar
As a presence in the world—a body hanging from a subway strap or pressed into an elevator, a figure crossing the street—I am neither markedly masculine nor notably effeminate. Nor am I typically perceived as androgynous, not in my uniform of Diesels and boots, not even when I was younger and favored dangling earrings and bright Jack Purcells. But most people immediately read me (correctly) as gay. It takes only a glance to create my truth obvious. I know this from strangers who find gay people offensive enough to elicit a remark—catcalls from cab windows, to use a recent example—as well as from countless casual social engagements in which people easily assume my orientation, no sensitive gaydar necessary. I’m not so much out-of-the-closet as “self-evident,” to use Quentin Crisp’s group of words, although being of a younger generation, I can’t subscribe to his creed that it is a kind of disfigurement requiring lavender hair rinse.
I once placed a personal ad in which I described myself as “gay-acting/gay-appearing,” partly as a jab at my peers who favor to be thought of as “str8” but mostly because it’s just who I am. Maybe a better way to statement it would hav
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Chapter 15
AFFAIRS OF THE HEART: SIGNALS OF ATTRACTION AND FLIRTATION
Try flirting without using body language. Go on, give it a go. Surprise! It can't be done. You simply can't convey idealistic interest without the body getting into the perform. To play a really successful game of flirtation your body must talk what your mouth won't say.
If you're feeling wonderful about yourself the way you focus your eyes, position your mouth, and maneuver your shoulders, hips, and hands send out signals that say, 'Check me out! I consider you're hot!' After you get your target's attention you shift gears to hold onto his or her interest and shift the attraction to another level. Finally, having captured and conquered the unsuspecting, or equally interested party, your body moves into a new mode of behaving that demonstrates comfort, ease, and familiarity. Observe how long-term lovers predict one another's actions by the way they advance in synch with their partners.
How you use your body exposes how ready you are for a bit of romance, how attractive you feel, and how interested you are. Some courtship signals are deliberate
